One of the things I respect the most about Him it’s that he is always willing to talk. And He doesn’t just listen. … He *hears* what I am saying. He has taught me to communicate effectively (and Sofia has taught me to try to stay out of the drama triangle. ..). Between those two kinds of support I was able to speak and write effectively. .. without being a total snarky bitch. Ok. .. there was one wee snark… but He forgave me for it. And just like that we are back on kilter. Thank goodness because it really fucks me up in my head when we are at odds.
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Year nine. Yes. NINE. YEARS. I can hardly believe that as I write it. Master and I have maintained our D/s relationship, through ups and downs, highs and lows. And yet, we carry on. I'm the "small s" side of that designation as he often reminds me. I'm silly and prone to giggling at inopportune times. He's a wicked Sadist, who feeds me my drug of choice--pain. My brain is always spinning dirty and dark little fantasies, which I sometimes share with the world. Welcome to the nilla-verse. It's wet and slippery here...with a dragon or two lurking. View all posts by vanillamom