Stick a Fork in it?

Communication, an on-again, off-again thing with Him, has not gone well. We’ve not managed to actually speak to one another, and I confess to not wanting to hear him being pithy, or victim blaming.

I am not the one who put words to text as he did.

And when I texted him that I couldn’t keep thrashing this back and forth, which would sully all the good memories of us, and I was done, he said he “took back” all the words he’d said, as if that would absolve him of his comments.

uhm, no.

And I called him out on it (by text) and he has not responded. Is he waiting me out? Is he testing to see if I really mean it? Or does he just see (at last) that what he said was way, way unacceptable and realized that it was an uncrossable bridge?

I don’t know.

Can’t know.

And I’m water, flowing away from that place.

Again, a solo sub…then again…I’ve been solo since our last play time. Was it March? I think so. Yeah, another half year full of promised playtimes that never materialized. Some I will take the blame for, and some I didn’t push him on because it seems that every time I clear my schedule for free time with him, a sudden commitment would arise on his end. It’s happened a lot and I’ve just ridden it. Mine is to serve, right?

But it gets to be unfulfilling. There were no more attempts to try to dom me from afar…even the simple things like we used to do, betting orgasms on football score spreads, or solving riddles.

Did I bore him?

Did I give up too easily (who doesn’t, really, after a time?)?

Wasn’t I sub enough for him?

Oh stop, nilla. It wasn’t just me. It wasn’t just him. It was his “show”, he was the top, as he reminded me from time to time. But I think his heart wasn’t in it. I think he was just tired of the game. And I got tired to trying to entice.

That’s the stone cold truth.

OH, it was so good when it was good. He’s got a wicked humor that I found perfectly matched mine. He is a sadist, and a kind hearted person.

And he is no longer my Master, nor my Dom.

I will miss him.

9 thoughts on “Stick a Fork in it?

  1. This is one of those posts where hitting “like” doesn’t express an honest reaction. Having the life sucked out of you while you’re in a relationship just screams dysfunctional, be it vanilla or kink.. Sorry you have to go through this.

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